The power of positive expectancy


Ok, the jury is in.
It’s official.
I cannot STAND whiners and complainers.
One of the major influencers for me to spend more (or less) time with someone is to the extent that person exhibits a negative or defeatist attitude .. or if they practice the power of positive expectancy.

It’s incredible how many people expect or assume that things won’t go their way .. and then they’re disappointed and surprised when they turn out to be right.

This is the mentality of victims and losers, and something that has no place in my world.
It’s something that I’ve never tolerated since I had a very powerful “a-ha!” about a decade ago.  Truth be told, part of the breakthrough I had was the realization that I was one of the best whiners and complainers the world had seen.

It was one of those things that I had never been conscious of, until I was reading a magazine that spoke about negative attitude, and suggested that you keep track of how many negative thoughts you had about other people, things and situations.

I did this for a few days, and was shocked at what I found.

When I spent a few days actually being conscious of when I thought something negative, or said something negative, or was expecting something negative to happen, I was astonished.  I was doing it dozens of times a day, and had never been aware of it.

This was part of my journey, and doing this simple exercise helped me become aware of it.
Around that same time, I read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.  If you’ve read the book already, you know that the underlying “secret” of the book is that what you focus your thoughts and attention on is what you create and expand in your life.

These 2 things came together for me, and instantly caused me to become much more aware of when I was being negative.  What it also did was made me realize how many people I spent time with that were constantly negative, judgmental, and chose to be victims instead of in control of their lives.

How to find a money making niche

If your busi­ness isn’t mak­ing the money you expect, it’s a good chance that you haven’t quite hit on a money-making niche. You’ve prob­a­bly iden­ti­fied a tar­get­ed group of poten­tial cus­tomers but you may not have iden­ti­fied a tar­get­ed group of cus­tomers who aren’t spend­ing money for what you’re offer­ing.


Today, I’m going to give you a prac­ti­cal primer on find­ing a mar­ket niche. You’re going to read some of the items on this list and think that they won’t work or apply to you, but don't be so quick to dis­miss them. These tips apply to every­one, in every indus­try. That said...


Every­one is not your ideal cus­tomer


It’s coun­ter­in­tu­itive to think that by focus­ing on a small­er mar­ket you will actu­al­ly make more money, but it’s true. Real money is found in tar­get­ing and iden­ti­fy­ing a mar­ket niche found inside the inter­sec­tion of wants, trends and frus­tra­tions. The biggest mis­take most busi­ness own­ers make is stop­ping their search for a niche too soon.


After you’ve select­ed a par­tic­u­lar demo­graph­ic, look at what they want. Wants are emo­tion­al desires. Wants are the rea­son behind the prod­uct. They go far beyond the basic ben­e­fits. For exam­ple, women who have recent­ly got­ten divorced want to feel whole again. They may be attract­ed to a vari­ety of dif­fer­ent prod­ucts such as weight loss or coach­ing. They aren’t real­ly buy­ing the prod­uct; they are buy­ing how they want to feel.


Trends are anoth­er impor­tant aspect of find­ing a niche. You’re look­ing for ideas, behav­iors and prod­ucts that are trend­ing up and grow­ing in pop­u­lar­i­ty. Mobile devices are a trend. Social media is a trend. Real­i­ty TV is a trend. If you’re at a loss, just head out to a neigh­bor­hood sport­ing event and watch kids and fam­i­lies inter­act. What are they talk­ing about, what prod­ucts are they using? Again, don’t dif­fer­en­ti­ate between B2B and con­sumer because these lines are fair­ly blurred these days.


Final­ly we head to the most pow­er­ful buy­ing trig­ger: frus­tra­tion. Frus­tra­tion is a func­tion of the fre­quen­cy, inten­si­ty and dura­tion of a cir­cum­stance or event that just irri­tates your cus­tomer to the point of dis­trac­tion.


To put these into per­spec­tive take out a piece of paper. On the top put a pic­ture of a per­son that rep­re­sents your tar­get mar­ket. Draw three inter­sect­ing cir­cles and label them wants, trends and frus­tra­tions. Then inside each cir­cle draw icons that rep­re­sent each of those ele­ments for your audi­ence. This will acti­vate your brain to think dif­fer­ent­ly and con­nect with that audi­ence.


Use a mar­keter’s mind­set


The first thing you will have to do is stop look­ing at your prod­uct or ser­vice like a con­sumer, and start look­ing at it as a mar­keter. Con­sumers get snared and engrossed by the mes­sage and don’t see beyond the pur­chase. Mar­keters are focused on under­stand­ing cus­tomers’ needs, wants and deep­er desires and then deliv­er­ing on those in the form of an offer. Focus on your ideal client and explore how your prod­uct or ser­vice will help them achieve those deep desires and wants. Don’t snick­er. If your prod­uct is tech­ni­cal or indus­tri­al, remem­ber that B2B cus­tomers are peo­ple too. Explore what your project means to them, will it help them get a pro­mo­tion, be a hero, invent or devel­op some­thing new? Think big­ger and beyond the tan­gi­ble.


Fol­low the money


It’s stan­dard mar­ket­ing prac­tice to look for an empty space and fill it. But this isn’t always appro­pri­ate for every prod­uct or ser­vice. Notice car deal­er­ships, retail­ers and even food trucks are most suc­cess­ful when they go to a place where there are lots of peo­ple already spend­ing money. At that point, they don’t have to find an audi­ence; they only have to stand out and attract those peo­ple who are most attract­ed to their offer.


Anoth­er ter­rif­ic guer­ril­la strat­e­gy for fol­low­ing the money is to find every­one in that space and do an analy­sis of how suc­cess­ful they are, who they are attract­ing and how they are suc­ceed­ing at attract­ing peo­ple who spend money. Notice the adver­tis­ing, the head­lines and the offers. Crit­i­cal­ly exam­ine their mar­ket­ing mes­sages and the cus­tomers that are attract­ed to them. What is it about those mes­sages that pull cus­tomers in?


Explore and imple­ment a money-making model


Run­ning your busi­ness in reac­tive mode eats into your prof­it mar­gins. Sim­ply mak­ing, sell­ing and deliv­er­ing a prod­uct or ser­vice isn’t enough to keep your head above water. You need to cre­ate a money-making model that attracts and moves the most prof­itable cus­tomers through your pipeline. Online mar­keters have real­ly per­fect­ed money-making mod­els. They’ve care­ful­ly craft­ed land­ing pages that attract spe­cif­ic mar­kets, they give tons of free edu­ca­tion­al infor­ma­tion and they’ve turned the upsell into an art. Make the time to explore and eval­u­ate online mar­ket­ing offers and then adapt those prac­tices to your busi­ness.


Look around you


Notice that there is a per­sis­tent con­ver­sa­tion about how bad the econ­o­my is and how there are no oppor­tu­ni­ties out there. Then acknowl­edge the con­ver­sa­tion, and start look­ing around at the busi­ness­es that are suc­cess­ful. There are many, many busi­ness­es out there that are out­ra­geous­ly suc­cess­ful. If they are suc­cess­ful and mak­ing money, you have that oppor­tu­ni­ty as well. Take a crit­i­cal mar­keter's look at your busi­ness and use these tips to fur­ther define your niche and devel­op a model that gives this audi­ence exact­ly what they want and desire. You will not only build prof­itable sales, but you will also bring joy and sat­is­fac­tion to your cus­tomers.